Unlimited negative identities

The other days, in my English class, the teacher pointed out that some of the students there had a little bet negative identity. This was true about myself, like "I'm person with mental heal problem". This negative identity sometimes occupies a large part of my self image, and prevent me from take positive action or communicating someone else.

However, this wasn't my worst identity. I sometimes fell myself as a person from the planet other than the earth. I remember that my classmate once in a while said that I was from Mars and have 8 legs and have green blood. Whenever the classmate mention it, I was so unhappy that I would felt my feet heavy when I go to school, imagining that I'd be treated like an alien on the coming day.

If I was successful in some aspect of my daily life, I could this alien aspect inside me into somehow positive identity, but in the reality that I'm actually alienated in my daily life, especially in business society, this "alien" identity make me feel that I'm the person who shouldn't be on earth, and should be somewhere else in the universe.

But, if I were to leave the earth, would Jesus ......

My concern has been that "some of my classmates say that my blood color is different, so would Jesus blood clean up my sin?"

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