1. How can I change?
  There are many frustration because some of visitors of my Japanese blog have quite different view from mine, especially about work and abilities. I thought I have been a strong believer of focusing on your strong point and things you like. Even though now I'm not so independent enough, I'm taking actions with the awareness of my strong point. Some visitors don't think that way. They prefer less demanding working environment to one a bit more demanding but can maximize workers' strong point. I have been frustrated from this difference of views. I often hear the word; "It's really difficult to change someone else, and it's much easier to change yourself."
Then how can I change? Well, my idea is not the real problem, but it's a problem that I havn't fully understood the idea, "There are a lot of different views from yours, and you may want to get along with people with various views."

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