Learning and using more positive and effective words

Recently, and almost throughout since the beginning of this blog, I've mainly focused on troubles and stress from my characteristic related to autism spectrum.

Now I'm thinking of changing the way of thinking. Using more positive words.
Through the experience of working for my current job, I've learned this perspective.

Stress and tiredness may be real, but still I believe that I can make the most out of them,
because there are a lot of things to learn from them and from the cause of them, mainly from communications.

For example I guess I tend to get more stress than average people. This however make myself more conscious of the load of communication of myself, my bosses and my colleagues, and made myself aware of the need of acquiring more effective communication skills not only to achieve higher performance, but also to reduce the stress in communications.

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