The progresses I have made : 8 Figuring out what to communicate is my job

When you are working for somebody else, figuring out and composing what to communicate is basically your job. I didn't understand this at all when I got a master's degree, and began to look for a job.

Until then my way of communication is finding someone who well guess what is not far from my desire, probably what I want to communicate, and communicate it on my behalf. People I could communicate comfortable had this faculty.

Even when looking for a job, I was thinking that someone should find what I'm good at, and what I can contribute to someone else or a certain business.

After I had a job, I've found that it's basically my job to find what I can contribute to someone else and a business.

Looking back in those days, my problem was thinking that it's the job of someone else, because I'm extremely bad at doing this, to find my sales point. Now I'm practicing and making efforts to communicate how and what I can contribute to other people.

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