My scare of social networking sites continues to persist

"Proper actions in your social networking media is critical to increase readers and comments on your blog." When I search for the ways to grow a blog, I hear such kind of remarks so often.

Unfortunately however, I'm shy in social networking sites I have my account of, as well as real world. It was only two or three times that I posted about my blogs on such social media sites. I feel scared from social networking.

Here are scares I feel about social media.

  • A scare to see any reaction from other people about my post. Any kind.
  • A scare to be exhausted - Even though I receive feedback a few times, if ever, a week, I check the feedback fields one time an hour when I posted something on a social networking site or a blog
  • A scare to see discouraging news about my country or the world - I lose my energy by watching discouraging news or rumors on the web which don't really directly affect my everyday life. I let those news exhaust me and my everyday life.

In order to grow audience a little more, whether to get more active on social media may be another important issue. However I may want to consider this more carefully. My priority is not audience, until I myself grow as a writer. Increasing amount and improving quality of my writing is of higher priority. First priority is keeping my mental state in shape for my family, employer and co-workers, and perhaps keeping myself energetic, productive and proficient.

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