My stupidity was infectious to him and him, 30 years ago, traveling so slowly as to make me sad now

"Keep away from him. His stupidity is infectious." Word occurred to me when I'm headed for church this morning.

This is probably what I heard when I was in elementary school.
I'm always failing to behave. My behavior was so terrible that somebody at school spoke this word to somebody else, when he looked at me.
Was I sad then? I'm not sure. I'm not sure whether at that time, at age of 8, recognized my miserable feeling when I heard it, I could recognize this feeling sad. At least it's certain I was miserable at that time.

When I recalled this word today, I was both miserable and sad. Why this word I was said more than 30 years ago traveled so slowly that today I feel sad?

Fortunately this is not thing of present. No one says this way because I'm still not able to behave fully as an adult.

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