Neutral feelings about hairy caterpillars, many people hate, like my style of interaction : My progresses 16

When I was taking a timeout from today's worship service because I was so panicked, I was looking the flower bed. I saw several beautiful flowers. I also saw a hairy caterpillar eating a leaf. It seemed to enjoy its meal so much, I went on watching it for a while.

A hairy caterpillar is hated by many people for its ugly appearance. The hairs of it looks so sharp that it could sting us. In fact if we touch it, we will be hurt, with skin touching it becoming itchy by its poison in most case, so we do not want to touch it, and sometimes there are so many hairy caterpillars are on the road that it make rather a grotesque sight.

As long as we keep a discreet distance it doesn't attack us, so it's not so bad as long as it's in our way or it devours plants very important to us.

I'm surprised that I'm expressing a neutral feeling about a hairy caterpillar, but it also reminds me of myself, trying to be harmless by keeping to a discreet distance from other people, managing some rough feelings as if they were stinging like a needle when other people came near me and began to interfere with. This feeling maybe a desire for my relationship with other people keeping to good distance and doing necessary communication as required.

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