When I came to Sendai 14 years ago, I was afraid of losing places and people in which I was able to speak. I knew no one then and I needed to build up human relationships from scratch. I needed a place, I mean, to be honest, I needed a few people to listen to my story and what I had struggled with.

14 years passed and, if not fully, I feel kind of secure. I feel that there isn't really a need to appeal something to win security. Also, reflecting on my characteristic, I don't really like to speak much. I would rather like to "do", such as exercises or study about information technology.

In another 10 years, situations may change, but for now, seeking for a place to speak won't pay, for the fatigue of taking crowded subway to the venue, in addition to taking Senzan Line to get home.

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