Happy New Year 2016

The year 2016 started.

It's a shame that sometimes I hesitate to say "happy" from the bottom of my heart, from my current mental state. Last few days, it took 2 to 3 more minutes for me to make a decision and take an action. Today, the church nearby had a new year's service. It was good to me that I managed to carry myself to where words from Lord is delivered, but I was greatly scared of people gathered there and scared of the sounds of the organ when worship song began.

I wish I could talk with more people more friendlily, but in my current mental state, I can't follow the pace other people communicate and take actions. I need some rehabilitation to keep up with the pace other people do thing and talk one another.

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