Being of different opinions and good friends - hard to understand now -

I fail to understand the relationship of being of different opinions and still good friends.

I tend to feel that when I hear the opposite opinion to mine, sometimes I feel as if my personality were denied.
My rationality tells that I could separate my opinion and personality, but my gut often refuse to do this.
I now wonder why I feel this way. Is it because of the education I've received, or is it because of relationships I've been in since my childhood? or is it because of my innate perception, which make it difficult to have solid personality hard to be subject to differences of opinions?

It takes lots of training to accept various opinions and still being firmly myself, but it's essential to obtain this point of view to build constructive relationships and thought by groupworks.

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