The upsides of the cooling system in my brain

In the recent posts, I've wrote about the cooling system in cooling system in a negative way. I described this as the culprit which freezes my words and make it difficult to mount onto my mouth to say them.

This cooling system, however, has some upsides to protect me and prevent me from causing serious meltdown.

I'm quick temper and easily heated up. Besides that, I tend to be shocked or overwhelmed when I see a message which is to communicate with me some change.

When I'm overwhelmed, at first, I was so shocked that I drag my feet, and my speech loses its power. I know it takes some time for me to really understand what the message want to say and sometimes even to find out the change may be quite beneficial to me.

This is how the cooling system works on me in beneficial way.

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